Both my husband and I hit our 40's within the last two years.
I'll admit after 17 years of marriage, our sex life has gone through its share of changes.
We often marvel at how we had enough energy to have sex 5 times a day while going to college, working two part time jobs (his at school, mine off campus) and his water polo practice twice a day. When did we have time to sleep? Go to parties? Recover from drinking too much?
And then I remember I was 19/20 and he was 21/22.
A time where staying up till 4am frantically writing a paper due at 9am, didn't keep me from working a six hour shift, going to 3 classes and apparently fucking my brains out for 3 hours.
After 21 years(total) together, our sex life has gone through peaks and valleys. Babies and graveyard shifts.
And now at 41, I finally get the whole Demi Moore/Ashton Kutcher thing.
See, women go through their sexual peak sometime in their late 30's to early 40's whereas men peak sometime in their 20's.
You'd have to have a 20 year old on stand by...or risk giving your husband a heart attack.